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Eastern European Women, IKEA Dates, & Airport Farewells

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I’m at the airport right now. Being in Eastern Europe for the past two years, I’ve spent a lot of time at various European airports. In regards to my personal life, I’ve found myself in a revolving cycle of meeting Eastern European women on Tinder, taking them on dates to the local IKEA, and then breaking up and saying goodbye to them at the airport. Would I recommend any of this to my fellow white men? Let’s find out!

First, I need to address the Eastern European Woman question (EEWQ). We have all heard the stereotypes and rumors. Apparently, all Eastern European women are beautiful supermodels that are based, red-pilled, know how to cook, and are just waiting to give birth to your seven children in order to save western civilization. All while being the masters of lovemaking and never aging.

I don’t want to destroy your hopes and dreams, but from my experience, Eastern European women are still women. And no woman, or man for that matter, is perfect. So while there may still be some cultural, linguistic and behavioral differences between Western and Eastern European women, you are still going to have various issues when dating or being in a relationship with any woman. Regardless of where she is from. After all, relationships are between two people, and no two people will ever be perfect themselves or truly perfect for each other.

That being said, I’ve gone on dates with Eastern European women that had none of the qualities listed above. I’ve also been in serious relationships with women that did have some of those rumored qualities. Without divulging too much personal information, I’ll simply focus on some relationships I had with women that I dated in Ukraine, Latvia, and Hungary.

I found all three women by using Tinder. Now I know exactly what you are thinking. Yes, I know all about the 80/20 rule and how online dating is both a waste of time for most men while also contributing to the narcissism that plagues many young women. I also agree that online dating shouldn’t be the only sole method that our men use to find women.

What I suggest is that our guys use online dating sites as a tool along with other methods of meeting women. One alternate method is striking up conversations with women in public, whether it be a book store or a supermarket. This can be a way of meeting a woman in your geographical area who may at the very least have similar interests as you. Another option is to simply ask your male friends whether their girlfriends or wives have any single female friends that they could potentially set you up on a date with.

Yet whether we like it or not, online dating, as horrible as it can be, has become the standard norm of modern dating and will be the standard norm for some time. If a white man doesn’t have any online dating profiles, he is severely limiting his options and number of potential women he could contact. After all, would you really tell a job seeker not to apply for jobs online? Naturally, the odds are better for applying to jobs online, but the same logic applies.

So after contacting and chatting with a woman online, I immediately try to get an in-person meetup within 48 to 72 hours. Whether this be a coffee shop or a restaurant depends on a few factors such as schedule, and more importantly, your budget. And just from my personal experience, the first-dates where I met a woman at a restaurant for dinner more often than not turned into serious relationships, as opposed to the first-dates where I met women casually at a coffee shop. Yet even after surviving the first few dates, I never really felt that I knew a woman until I took her on a date to the local IKEA.

Some people hate IKEA, and I’m sure they have many valid reasons. But I will admit without shame that I greatly enjoy going to IKEA, even by myself. I like the variety of food there and their relatively cheap prices. I also really enjoy assembling and building IKEA furniture, as it always reminds me of playing with Legos as a kid (although I will admit Lego sets have better instruction manuals than IKEA furniture).

More importantly, taking a woman on a date to IKEA can give you a lot of insight about her that you wouldn’t normally get in the initial dating phase. I recommend eating at the IKEA cafeteria first, and keep an eye out on whether she helps gather plates, silverware, and napkins for you. A woman that will gather such things shows that she is at least making an attempt to be helpful. After the meal, start at the beginning of the showroom and see whether she walks with you at your pace or whether she walks ahead of you. I’ve found that women who constantly walk ahead of you have a lot of social issues.

Be ready and willing to show her all the furniture pieces you like or would want in your place and see how she responds. There’s a reason why most professional poker players are men, as most women, even if they stay silent, will often show their thoughts or feelings through facial movements. For the furniture pieces you like but she doesn’t like, see how much she is willing to compromise. Would she settle for that couch or shelf in a different color, or does she always expect to have her pick and choice every time?

Lastly, if you ever end up actually buying some furniture that you have to assemble, be sure to have her watch you assemble it. I’m not exactly sure why, but women I’ve dated in the past have always enjoyed watching me assemble IKEA furniture. Maybe it’s the fact that I actually like assembling furniture and they enjoy watching me have fun. Or maybe they find it attractive and masculine for a man to work with his tools and bare hands. Regardless, you yourself can take pride that you built something all by yourself.

So why am I writing about all of this? Because I care about you, white man. I care about all of my fellow white brothers and I want to see white men dating white women. Yes, you definitely don’t need a woman to be happy or to reach your full potential. There will even be periods in your life where you are probably better off focusing on yourself instead of pursuing women.

That being said, when you are ready to search and find a woman, you need to realize that the chances of you finding a woman who is already based and red-pilled are going to be slim to none. This is the cold hard truth, and perhaps the main takeaway from this article. It is our responsibility as white men to find a woman, red-pill her, and be a continuous source of leadership for her and your future children, if you want those things in life. An IKEA date merely acts as a litmus test as to how comfortable and compatible the two of you are together, while also helping you identify certain character traits.

Ever since I was a kid, I always enjoyed people-watching at the airport, and I still do today. You always notice couples close to tears as they say their goodbyes and farewells at the departure area. You also see people get excited as they kiss and hug their partners when they meet in the arrival area, as one can only imagine how long they missed each other and waited to see each other again.

Being in Eastern Europe these last two years, I’ve been fortunate enough to have had both experiences. I’ve taken flights to airports where I anticipated meeting my online crush for the very first time. I’ve also had difficult farewells and goodbyes at the airport, knowing that it was the very last time I would kiss and embrace the woman I thought could have been my life partner. I’m at the airport right now, and today was one of those days.

But to my original question, as to whether all the time on Tinder, at IKEA and at the airport was worth getting into a relationship with a woman in the first place. The answer ultimately depends on you and what you want out of life. Regardless, the next time I’m at an airport, I hope to see you greeting a woman in the arrival area. And if the two of you make it to IKEA, the first round of Swedish Meatballs will be on me.

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22 Comments

  1. ex South African
    Posted December 31, 2019 at 3:32 am | Permalink

    Just when the article started to get interesting, it suddenly came to an end!

    Very interesting article by someone who married into Eastern Europe:

    https://www.amren.com/features/2019/11/why-older-white-men-should-start-second-families/

    • Lexi
      Posted December 31, 2019 at 7:10 am | Permalink

      Amren is promoting serial monogamy now?

      I guess they don’t buy the whole incel thing, then. Otherwise, it would be hard to justify old White men poaching fertile, mates from the next generation.

    • Stronza
      Posted December 31, 2019 at 11:01 am | Permalink

      From the amren article:

      A woman can’t control her own contribution to a child’s intelligence — that’s baked into her genome.

      Not so, not at all. A fetus that is cared for properly through the mother’s way of living, day after day, is going to be healthy – and superior health includes intelligence. For god’s sake, even certain stone age people knew this when they advised young pregnant women to eat certain high-nutrition foods that are not regularly consumed by the tribe. Long before science, long before white civilization. And even in our dumbed-down society of today, a few people realize that both male and female should lead a clean and healthy life prior to conceiving.

      Keep bad hours, drink alcohol, smoke weed, fight, take drug medicines for every little uncomfortable symptom, work at an unsatisfying job, expose yourself to chemicals, and so on – and you can bet that without massive good luck, you will probably birth a sickly and/or stupid child.

      All this talk about “genes” determining everything is irritating. Genes are not as cast in stone as everyone seems to think; they are agents reflecting overall health (something controllable outside of situations of war & starvation). Genes aren’t separate from the rest of you.

      Anyway, I have to look suspiciously at older divorced men and almost-worn-out promiscuous bachelors suddenly deciding that it would be a nice idea to scoop up a young woman so they can “fulfill themselves”. You had your chance; if you buggered it up, well, tough tits. Young men and young women belong together. You have money to burn? Use it to help deserving younger people.

      • Amoux
        Posted December 31, 2019 at 11:13 am | Permalink

        Keep bad hours, drink alcohol, smoke weed, fight, take drug medicines for every little uncomfortable symptom, work at an unsatisfying job, expose yourself to chemicals, and so on – and you can bet that without massive good luck, you will probably birth a sickly and/or stupid child.

        I couldn’t have said it any better myself. Bravo.

  2. Amoux
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 8:41 pm | Permalink

    This was an interesting article, but why are you using Tinder? All of the mainstream dating sites are managed by Globalists who are ardent supporters of Cultural Marxism. The ownership of these platforms glorify Modernism and use them for data mining. So not only are you supporting the enemy, but you’re also giving up your rights to nearly all personal privacy as these platforms are extremely intrusive. If you’re going to use online dating, then at least support a fully independent site and one that’s not under the umbrella of a Globalist cabal such as Match Group.

    Furthermore, I don’t understand why you need to resort to online dating to meet women — especially while you’re traveling throughout Europe. I spend a significant amount of time traveling for personal and professional endeavors and I’ve never had a problem with meeting people through natural means — and more often than not you meet some of the best people under the most random circumstances.

    A self-proclaimed Traditionalist/Nationalist who’s supportive of online dating is living a contradictory and disharmonious life, IMO.

  3. Lovely Phenotypes
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 7:44 pm | Permalink

    Tinder, IKEA, and dating advice . . . . I don’t know who should feel more slighted – young women or young men. The airport portion was quite wholesome and nice though, may I ask why you have not settled down with one of the women whom you leave at the airport?

  4. Lesley
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 7:24 pm | Permalink

    Is it possible to get a quick comparison of Ukraine, Latvia, and Hungary at some point from the author?
    Stuff like infrastructure state, people, overall mood…
    Balts, Huns, and Slavs–that’s a very interesting combination and could truly show the whole EE picture, in a sense.

    • Astra
      Posted December 31, 2019 at 5:29 am | Permalink

      I’m not sure, if those countries would like to be lumped together. I don’t know about Latvians, but Estonians would hate Eastern European label, or grouping together.
      In general how does it sound… the whole thing sounds sex-touristy. Kind of degrading. It can be that he ether was different at the time of the events (also it’s not so popular to brag about those kind of things anymore), or even lying to himself. 2 years is enough time to find a wife wherever you are (even in non white parts of the world, provided you date white expats).

  5. Svea Svensson
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 6:41 pm | Permalink

    That being said, when you are ready to search and find a woman, you need to realize that the chances of you finding a woman who is already based and red-pilled are going to be slim to none.

    There are many based and red-pilled women, but apparently not in the way you would prefer. Many Europeans actually find their life-partners within nationalist parties, organizations, and networks. Attending their social events is an excellent way for meeting people, and potential partners, who share one’s basic values.

    It is our responsibility as white men to find a woman, red-pill her, and be a continuous source of leadership

    And despite two years in Eastern Europe, full of Tinder- and IKEA-dates, you still haven’t managed to live up to this responsibility. Maybe you should learn from your mistakes and try something else!

  6. Stronza
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 3:41 pm | Permalink

    Did I read this correctly – you take women to IKEA (lunch area + looking at the furniture) in order to size them up? What a waste of time. Why don’t you just hand them an application form and be done with it.

  7. Astra
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 12:35 pm | Permalink

    It didn’t work. It’s all what matters. Could have been night club or .. well it’s actually quite difficult to go lower than Tinder and Ikea. Why Ikea is not ok? For a start it’s openly and very anti-white. The list is long though, but I won’t bother.
    Let us know things, that work next time. Well, unless the goal was different, than stated, that one worked I see. Or maybe I’m too harsh for the guy, he might be just a normie in a dating world (probably not, but I’ll give this story a benefit of doubt).

  8. Lexi
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 9:48 am | Permalink

    Yes, I know all about the 80/20 rule and how online dating is both a waste of time for most men while also contributing to the narcissism that plagues many young women.

    Female hypergamy: the hoax that just won’t die.

    https://www.reddit.com/r/Trufemcels/comments/97k2eu/upwards_of_60_of_messages_on_okcupid_from_women/

    For the furniture pieces you like but she doesn’t like, see how much she is willing to compromise. Would she settle for that couch or shelf in a different color, or does she always expect to have her pick and choice every time?

    Excellent advice. Women: A good man will defer to a woman in matters of interior decoration. Avoid any man who does not, especially in the likely event that he has bad taste. If you want to be a stay-at-home mom, this is where you will spend most of your time. You don’t want to look at trophies, gargantuan television sets, ugly recliners, and taxodermic masterpieces for the rest of your days.

    • John Wilkinson
      Posted December 30, 2019 at 11:52 am | Permalink

      There’s another way to interpret that data which sheds light on the truth (which doesn’t castigate men, because nobody denies that men are shallow…but it does dispel myths about women).

      1) Nobody has ever claimed that men aren’t shallow or that we don’t place looks/appearance/fitness into the highest of priorities. ALL men look for the most attractive females, and will attempt to date women who we perceive as above average. Of course, average and ugly men know they are average or ugly and generally don’t fret when the most attractive women reject them. Still, men will always aim for women we perceive as more attractive relative to our own attractiveness.

      2) Which brings us to the myth: That women are somehow more compelled by personality, success, confidence, sense of humor, wealth etc than looks. Absolutely bullshit. All of that is just icing on the cake if a man is good looking. A woman’s #1 priority is a tall, dominating man who isn’t effete in his looks. I’ll give you that women tend to have broader tastes where looks are concerned, but height and physical dominance are absolute requisites.

      3) So given these two above realities, the nature of woman is that she is extremely picky and has a long laundry list of expectations that a man must meet to even be considered. But even when a man meet the less superficial requirements (success, personality etc), as far as online dating goes, he will not even get a foot in the door if he doesn’t meet certain physical requirements.

      4) Back to men. Yes, we are visual creatures and our filter weeds out ugly and obese women. But typically, unless you are a total bitch, if you catch our eye physically, we will put up with a LOT of shitty personality flaws. Ultimately, men are OVERALL less picky because of this.

      5) ultimately I agree that the internet creates a false sense of entitlement to both men and women, ie nobody will put forth any effort anymore to date someone who isn’t basically Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie. The internet itself is mostly to blame, it is destroying human relationships.

      • Lexi
        Posted December 30, 2019 at 2:08 pm | Permalink

        So given these two above realities, the nature of woman is that she is extremely picky and has a long laundry list of expectations that a man must meet to even be considered. But even when a man meet the less superficial requirements (success, personality etc), as far as online dating goes, he will not even get a foot in the door if he doesn’t meet certain physical requirements.

        That’s only true if you consider the good-looking ones to be the only relevant ones. Less-attractive girls will be grateful for any attention they get, even from short guys. The pretty girls will be pickier.

        The 80/20 thing is pure projection, and the fact that this hasn’t been acknowledged in our circles is a disgrace.

        https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm

        But typically, unless you are a total bitch, if you catch our eye physically, we will put up with a LOT of shitty personality flaws. Ultimately, men are OVERALL less picky because of this.

        I would be I interested in seeing any evidence to that effect. The other day, Anton indicated that he wouldn’t be interested in any woman who looks at him the wrong way when serving him a sandwich.

  9. Posted December 30, 2019 at 9:15 am | Permalink

    Fullmoon got that Trumpian chad charisma. He took women furniture shopping too, right before grabbing ’em by the pussy.

  10. watcher
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 5:31 am | Permalink

    Ed Norton in Fight Club was unwittingly on to something? He should have taken Marla to IKEA?

  11. Adrian
    Posted December 30, 2019 at 3:13 am | Permalink

    You’re using Tinder? Is White Date not an option? And I’m sure they have proper restaurants in Eastern Europe. But good luck!

    • John Wilkinson
      Posted December 30, 2019 at 6:54 am | Permalink

      White Date?
      I just looked it up. That’s legit? Are there people really using this, or is it a dox honeypot of some kind?

      • Greg Johnson
        Posted December 30, 2019 at 7:35 am | Permalink

        It is legit.

      • Lovely Phenotypes
        Posted December 30, 2019 at 7:53 pm | Permalink

        I highly doubt it will catch on but one can hope. As the author stated most women are not “red pilled” and the idea of a white dating website would likely be met with shock and outrage. It’s very difficult to try and repair relations between the sexes and reignite trust given all that has happened and is still happening.

        I think Tinder attracts the worst type of girl and guy, best to go for ChristianMingle or eHarmony or something of that kind.
        This goes onto the point that Richard Houck hit home in his article about 7-11 Nationalism; Harmony, kindness, trust and dating among the sexes and all these things that you can’t directly see being affected by diversity … really is to a grand degree.

        • Lovely Phenotypes
          Posted December 30, 2019 at 8:07 pm | Permalink

          I don’t like the idea of white people having to date out of desperation because they let themselves go because of depression from all that is happening, cannot find a mate, because they’re de-facto evil people, or because they no longer have trust in kin.

          I absolutely believe that we will experience a grand dysgenic evolution as we become fearful, thought criminals, and outcasts because our soul is dead. We are set to become the ugly neurotic Jew.
          Attractive and wealthy whites will slowly breed out as they can find a slave in a minority girl or guy whom worships them, intelligent people (so often the outcast already) will also seek a minority whom looks up to them to satiate their ego, and the rest will give in to exotic temptation brought on by our (((culture))) or ease of mate selection. All that will be left is a tiny ugly minority whom is endlessly neurotic and suspicious of everything.

          People say genes aren’t enough to hold a group together and there may be some truth to that but I believe it is more that people always return and submit to power – and those in power do not want white genes to remain. Race is still the only taboo. If power was more set on tradition or most anything else I think genes really could hold people together much better than they are now at least.

    • Svea Svensson
      Posted December 30, 2019 at 6:43 pm | Permalink

      Judging from their public forum there seems to be very little activity on White Date.
      https://www.whitedate.net/forums/

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